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Applications are reviewed and approved by Penny Tupy.
Please complete this application in full. You will be notified vial email within a week of receipt of the application of your approval. Once approved you will be kept up to date on the next available classes. All Mods and EI providers must complete the Marriage Overview and the Infidelity Overview prior to taking the Moderator or EI provider training. All classes are offered via teleclass.
Directions:
Give your thoughts and values on the questions below. Answers must be in full sentences. The application is not based on your knowledge level as much as your thought processes, attitudes and belliefs, and your ability to relay those things with clarity. Be thorough. Feel free to use all resources at your disposal. This is an open book opportunity!
Some questions may seem more applicable to those in other roles with SYMC, Mentors and Coaches, for example. However, since Moderators and to a certain extent EI providers will be in a position to suggest resources and offer advice, these questions are pertinent for these voluntary positions as well.
What is your position on divorce?
At what point would you advise a couple or individual to file for divorce?
What constitutes infidelity?
Under what conditions is it acceptable to go outside the marriage in order to have one's needs met by same sex friends?
Under what conditions is it acceptable to go outside the marriage in order to have one's needs met by a member of the opposite sex?
What are the dangers inherent in a discussion board about marriage?
How can we be aware of and address those dangers?
At what point during separation is it acceptable to begin dating someone new?
What are the essential steps for addressing a mate's infidelity?
What are the conditions for recovery following infidelity?
What is the number one thing couples must do if they are to maintain or repair their marriages?